Sunday, August 11, 2019

Together We Can...

"Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much." Helen Keller

"True teams are made when you put aside individual wants for collective good."

"We do not have to think alike to think together."

"Iron sharpens iron; so a man sharpens the countenance of his friend." Prov. 27:17

I love how God has designed the Church to work together. We were not created to live on an island alone. We NEED others! How much can we accomplish alone?  Wayne shared in a message last Sunday at Dienya about the Living Church. For a church to be truly alive each member must also have a living relationship with Jesus, the giver of life. It must make God smile when he sees a "living church" (or a compound) :) working in harmony. We feel blessed to be part of a wonderful group of missionaries who share the same vision and goals that we have.

It's raining lightly this evening and we are grateful!! It's been getting dry again so it will be a blessing to have the dust settled and things greening up. We've been seeing some very nice maize in our travels to and fro... I'm so happy for the nationals who will have a good harvest. And we've been very impressed with how the CBF churches have been working together. Ahero is once again, not having a good harvest, so some of the other churches are voluntarily sharing bags of maize with them. We love to see that!!

Wayne has been quite busy with land title issues, Pastor's meetings at the different churches, and some maintenance work in the compound. A few weeks ago Wayne and I, and Lorne, Grace, and Tanya Keupfer visited Fred and Caroline who live up towards Nyagondo. Some of you remember them from when they lived in Nakuru years ago. Some years ago there were plans to start a CBF church at Sakwa with Fred as a leader.  Those plans were not brought to fruition because of some problems that surfaced. Caroline would still very much like to be with the CBF church and she LOVES when visitors come and brighten her day. We really enjoyed the day. Lornes and Freds talked a lot about bygone days in Nakuru. Caroline served us a very good Kenyan meal! We were also glad for the opportunity to spend time with Lornes. They were a real blessing to the work here in Kisumu! They spent their last week in Nakuru before departing for their Kansas home.

The day after our visit with Freds, Wayne had a meeting with Bishop Steve Esh and the brothers at Dienya. They discussed the changes that will be coming up. Steve has now been given Bishop responsibility there. We're hoping that by the end of the year there may be a national Pastor commissioned there. Pray for Vitalis and Benter. I believe I mentioned in a previous post that Benter has moved back to her homeland close to Oroba because of the danger of staying in the Dienya area where her husband Vitalis is, or was, living. Vitalis was released from prison a while back,  but it was discovered that he has been "thieving" again. Neighbors and police are TIRED of it and Vitalis is now a wanted man! He is supposedly in hiding somewhere but anyone who sees him is to report to the police. Our hearts are heavy about the situation. How we long for repentance for Vitalis! Please help us pray for him and for his dear wife Benter during this extremely difficult time.

Two weeks ago we attended the Ahero church and were happy to have Kore Beachy and Marcus Troyer join us there. They arrived in Kisumu on Sat. and stayed until Monday noon. From here they travelled by bus to Uganda where they planned to work with the South Sudanese refugees there in northern Uganda. It was so interesting to visit with Marcus and discover more "connections". He's a very good friend of my cousin from Holmes Co., Ray Stoltzfus and wife Julia. We also discovered that his step grandmother is Clara Troyer (wife of Atlee, who died a number of years ago). My parents were very good friends with Clara in their youth and later after she was married they had connections again at FMH. I was named after Clara Troyer. I think Marcus was surprised to discover that! :) At Ahero that Sunday, instead of Wayne preaching, he asked Kore and Marcus if they would be willing to share about the work of CAM that they've been involved with in their world travels. I could tell that people were really listening. So many of the nationals here feel like they're the victims, the poor folks who need hand-outs. But that day they heard many things about suffering around the world... storm victims in Mozambique, refugees who have been chased from their homes and family members killed in Nigeria and South Sudan, etc. It seemed to really open their eyes and there were a number of testimonies afterward of gratefulness to God for what they have here. I wish SO much that all of our churches could have heard what was shared that day!! It really helps us count our blessings and makes us aware of others in need. After church we hosted Kore, Marcus, Jeremy Fisher, and Lorne Kuepfers here for lunch. That evening we invited the rest of the compound to join us around our fire ring for a marshmallow roast. The fellowship was great! 

The next day was Pastor's meeting. After serving Pastor's drinks, the girls and I headed to clean James and Christina's house in preparation for their return from furlough. It didn't take long, since there was plenty of help. And oh, how wonderful it is to have James' back, as well as Kaylita and Rhoda!!  Now we can also look forward to the arrival of Brian and Rosie Miller's family the end of this month! We were all thrilled when we heard the news that Brian's work permit was approved! We ladies happened to be together at the time the news came, and you should've heard the cheering and rejoicing that went on! :) Wayne was outside and heard the commotion and he said it reminded him of the sounds Moses and Joshua heard when they were on the mountain and the people were in the valley below. He wasn't sure at first if it was the sound of war or rejoicing... but it didn't take him long to figure it out. :) 

Clarissa and Shonda spent a week in Nakuru, along with Melodie Beiler, and Julie Esh. We found out that the Nakuru unit had a lot of painting that needed to be done in Marlin Yoder's vacated house, and since the four girls from here didn't have anything pressing to do here at the time, they volunteered to help. They reported a good time and it sounds like they got a fair amount done although they didn't finish the project. It's taking quite a lot of layers of paint to cover it well. They enjoyed getting to know some of the new girls in Nakuru. They attended the Free Area church on Sunday. They were also privileged to meet the newest member of the Luke Kurtz family who was born last week. Her name is Zahra Grace. We really missed the girls while they were gone and were very happy to welcome them home!

Plans are being made for another youth conference in December in Nakuru (CBYC).  Wayne had a board meeting in Kericho on Thursday to make plans for CBYC 2019.  The current Board is Marlin Yoder, David Odiwuor, Winfred Miller, Matthews Mbuya, and Wayne.  Pray for our youth.  The future of CBF in Kenya rests largely on their shoulders.

Last Sunday we attended the Dienya church. It was the day that Wayne handed over the Bishop responsibility to Steve Esh. It was a happy day for the members. I think they feel very blessed to have Steves back again!!  And what a blessing it is for Wayne and I! In the next number of weeks Wayne plans to hand over Bishop responsibility for the church at Ugunja and also Chulaimbo to Steve as well. Continue praying for the work here! We trust that in God's time He will provide replacements for Josephs, James', and then our family. We thought the Dave Stoltzfus family from MT would be coming this fall, but it doesn't look like that will work out after all. Maybe later? After church on Sunday the whole compound was invited to Steve Eshs' for a fellowship dinner! I wonder if that was a first for the compound? There were only 12 of us here so it was quite interesting, and the food was great!  There were meatballs, potatoes, salad, sour dough bread, and pies for dessert! I don't believe any of us had to wait really long for lunch, except maybe Allens, who don't have nearly as far to drive to their church at Lela. 

On Monday there was pastors meeting as usual with a Kisumu Area Joint Pastors Meeting in the afternoon with all the national pastors as well.  Willice Agalo from Chulaimbo was the only pastor absent.  We have added a KAJP in August and also divided into three districts and made plans for those pastors to meet more often, matbe every two months or so.  The creation of these smaller groups is in an effort to help create closer relationships within the churches that are geographically closer, as well as give the pastors an added circle of accountability and counsel to draw from.  As missionary pastors our weekly "pastors table" meeting is invaluable and we hope that more frequent meetings in small groups will provide the same blessing to our national brothers.  (WY)

Wayne worked on a sidewalk project at our house this week. We had trouble with water drainage whenever it rained, so the driveway and former sidewalk were dug down and then Wayne laid flagstone. He did a nice job and we're all hoping the drainage problem will be fixed! 

Wayne and I, and Allen and Rhoda attended the youth seminar at Rabuor on Thursday. Lela and Ahero youth were also invited. Most of the youth that attended were young teenagers who are not members but have been attending sometimes. Pastor John Omondi had a good message. I especially enjoyed hearing the Ahero youth sing. They are exceptional! Another interesting thing they did this year was have a debate. They set up a table and chair in the front of the church that was supposed to be like Parliament. They sang the national anthem of Kenya, then proceeded to have a debate between christians and "non christians". I couldn't catch everything they said... some of them were shy and talked so quietly, but it was interesting anyway. :) After that, Rosemary Ondeyo shared a health talk with the young girls. She was straightforward, and to the point, teaching them how to care for themselves physically and spiritually.  William shared the "health talk" with the young men.

Last evening Allen and Rhoda Peachy invited the compound to their house for a chicken fajita supper. It was what we call a "language class supper". I guess you'd say it's a celebration because of completion of language study. The food and fellowship was much enjoyed!! The waffle cones and homemade ice cream just topped it off! Jeremy Fisher and Cameron Zook were around for CAM work and were in attendance as well.

This morning we attended Lela. We were happy to see that Zilpa and Esther, two excommunicated members, were there. Pray for their total repentance. They really seem to want to do what's right but the way is hard.  Wayne message title was "Follow me".  God's call to follow Him is clear. We followed the call of Jesus in the life of Peter. Peter stumbled sometimes but he faithfully followed His Lord to death.  Judas was also called to follow but failed because he did not forsake all.  Are we being "sidetracked" along the way?   Allen and Rhoda joined us here for lunch after church. Thanks to all for your support and prayers!  Wayne and Clara


Fred and Caroline Ochola

Lorne Kuepfers with Freds

Caroline with Fred's mother

Clara and Caroline

Ugunja Bible study

Ahero folks visiting Rhoda Arao

Wayne, Brad, Vanessa, and Allen attended the Ag Show one Sat.

Built in New Holland, PA!!
A loom

Ahero Choir

Marcus Troyer

Kore Beachy

Kore and Marcus ready to head to Uganda

Goodbye Lorne, Grace, and Tanya



CBYC Board meeting in Kericho

The sanding and painting crew

Walking to Willice's house for Needs Committee meeting

Laying flagstone


Steve Esh at Dienya

Greeting Steve and Martha after the handover of Bishop responsibility

Kisumu area Joint Pastor's meeting


Lela church

Pastor Allen

Mama Esther in the middle. Pray for her deliverance from the monster of strong drink




Tuesday, July 23, 2019

HOME... where is it?



"A man travels the world over in search of what he needs, and returns home to find it." George Moore

"The power of finding beauty in the humblest things makes a home happy and life lovely."
Louisa May Alcott

"Life takes you to unexpected places, LOVE brings you home.

We still call America "home" but when we're there on furlough, we call Kenya "home". So where is it? I've told many people that I feel like my heart is in two places. They say "Home is where the heart is". So I guess we have two homes... or is it three? Wayne has often reminded his audience when he's preaching that, "We're not home yet!" We're striving to reach our eternal Home someday! Home has a powerful drawing effect. There's no place I'd rather be!! 

Many thanks to all our dear friends, family, and supporters, who blessed us so richly while we were home on furlough! We had a wonderful time, not always restful because of "running" here and there, but it was a change in routine and so wonderful to see everyone again! My parents, Dad and Mom Bender, recently finished their basement because they wanted to move downstairs and allow us to use the main part of the house while we're home. Bless their hearts!! We felt so spoiled! It was wonderful to be there and we appreciate their sacrifice for us! 

The first weekend we were home we had the privilege of attending the wedding of Wayne's niece, Carmen Gingerich, who married Matthias Peachey (son of Ivan Peacheys, former Kenyans :) The wedding was very nice and we were thrilled to be able to be there! It was amazing for me to see Wayne in a suit coat while preaching the wedding message! :)  It's always a big adjustment to go back and get all dressed up for church! Bradlyn had a hard time appreciating his Sunday shoes! Wayne was a bit intimidated preaching in front of so many people in a setting like that.  He feels much more comfortable with our national brothers and sisters here. But God gave strength, and we were delighted to see so many of our Kenya friends there as well! Wayne's message was titled, "Lessons from a cup of chai". 

We spent a few days in PA with Wayne's parents and his brother Tim and Ruth's family. We were glad to connect with Kore, Wayne's cousin who served here in Kenya with us for a while, and his parents, Perry and Judy Beachy. Kore treated us to some ice cream at the famous Amy's in Mifflinburg. We also enjoyed seeing some of my Bender relatives and tasting some of Aunt Annie's "out of this world" moon pies!! We always love spending time at Keystone Housewares, the store that Dad Yoder and Tim own together.

Our children were happy to get in on a few nights of Summer Bible school at our church. Much time and effort is put into that and quite a few community children show up for that event. Supper is served there every evening.

We spent a good bit of time buying supplies for our next year of service here in Kenya. It takes careful planning to know how much stuff to bring along back. We are looking forward to moving back to our VA home sometime after school next term. Our children are very ready for this change. Coming home to Kenya was difficult for them this time mostly because of the fact that they feel so alone here. Since Joe and Glenda's family left us yesterday, our children are the ONLY ones on the compound. But they are trying to have good attitudes and I think if we all work together this next year can be a very good one!

Another huge highlight of furlough was the excitement of twins born into the Yoder family!! Tony and Judith were blessed with a boy named Alexander Blake and a girl named Addison Kate. They were born while we were in PA so we were privileged to take Wayne's mom back to VA with us where she is currently helping out with the little ones. The twins are adorable and as far as we know they are doing very well! 

Clarissa was very happy to welcome a group of her CBS friends to Wytheville one weekend. They stayed in our house since our renters had just vacated. There was no furniture there but they brought their own bedding, towels, etc. and "camped out". :)  They even enjoyed some animated games of spike ball in our living room! Sounds like they made lots of memories!

Time marched very rapidly and before we knew it, it was time to say "goodbye" once again. I don't enjoy those times at all but it's part of life. Vernon and Rosy took us to the airport in Charlotte. We had some stress because of our flight schedule being changed a bit and our luggage not being able to get onto our next flight in time. But our travel agent and AMA secretary, Ronald Miller, kindly arranged everything for us and we were good to go!  Things went well from then on and we arrived back in Kisumu 5 days ago. It was good to be HOME! Jet lag hasn't been as bad as sometimes. We hear that the unit here was extremely busy while we were gone. Joseph and Becky moved out of their house and into Jake Gingerich's vacated house, so that Steve, Martha, and Julie Esh can move into Joseph's house. A LOT of time and elbow grease goes into moves like that. Joe and Glenda were also extremely busy getting ready for their departure. This past Sunday evening there was a farewell for Joes at Lorne Kuepfer's house, and a welcome for Steve Esh's who arrived 4 days ago. Lornes plan to leave Kisumu this coming weekend and James Barkmans return from furlough a day or so later I believe. So there are many comings and goings. Thanks to those who have wished us well as we said goodbye to my sister and family. I kind of feel like I don't have feelings anymore. Life is so full of change... but we try to take a day at a time and God gives grace. Praise Him!  It's VERY exciting for us to have Steves here! Their former experience is worth an awful lot!! And it's a blessing for our older girls to have Julie here!  

On Saturday Wayne and I, along with Joe and Glenda, and Allen and Rhoda, attended the funeral of 16 yr. old Felix. His widowed mother's name is Lina. He came from a VERY poor home but seemed to have a happy disposition and was loved by many. The Dr. thinks he had chronic malaria and as a result died from anemia. He desperately needed 3 units of blood but for some unknown reason the Dr. delayed giving it to him and it was too late. There were many of Felix's school friends at the funeral, and it was easy to tell that he will be keenly missed! Please pray for his mother... she has lost so many of her children, and is grieving deeply.

We attended church at Chulaimbo on Sunday. Melodie went with us as well. We were glad we took a van that day so we could take extra passengers. One of Pastor Willice's sons was sick with malaria that day and was very weak. I believe their family has a 2 hr. walk to church, one way. They live on a very steep hillside. I was so GLAD we could be of help by taking him most of the way home so he didn't have to walk so far when he was sick.

I should have mentioned that the Sunday we left Kisumu for our flight to America was the day of Shonda's Baptism at Lela. It was a very special day for us and a privilege for Wayne to baptize his daughter! We also had our last Spring Communion service there that day. 

Continue praying for the work permit situation here. Melodie may have to leave before long if her permit doesn't come through. It was denied once but has been appealed. We're rejoicing though that Steve Esh and Allen Peachy both received their permits!  Now we're waiting on Brian Millers (Grove City, MN)  and Dave Stoltzfus' (MT) to be approved. God is in control!  Blessings and love to all, Wayne and Clara



Fill it up!

Judith Auma's (Kasongo) body arrives at the dala for burial the next day




Communion at Lela

Pastor Allen




At the Kisumu airport... Brad with the Governor of Kisumu

Setting up for the wedding





The happy couple... Matthias and Carmen

After the wedding message Wayne presented the couple with these mugs...

Cousins at the Yoder family camping

L to R Clarissa, Heather Weaver, Marcia Engel, Jana Gingerich, Krista Kauffman, Valencia Miller, Jody Yoder, Kendra Stoltzfus



Picking blueberries at Grandpas

Is that big enough Kore?

Grandpa Yoders at Tim and Ruths nice picnic area

Brad was delighted with his catch!

Fireman Randall Zook took Brad for a ride on the fire truck... much to his delight!

Grandma Yoder and the twins!
Addison Kate and Alexander Blake Zook

Mama Lina (in white) is mother of Felix who died

Lela school administration.  Former CBF Lela member Puis Obonyo, center

New Lela Pastor, Allen Peachy preached the funeral message

Felix's classmates from Lela Secondary bringing the casket for the final viewing

Chulaimbo church service

Melodie with Tiffany and Elliot just before they left for their homeland

Goodbye Joe and Glenda :(

Visiting with Joshua Omondi and George and James Kimuyi near Nyakoko church.  James is very happy with the wheelchair he received from CAM!