Monday, December 17, 2018

Sitting at the Feet of Jesus...


  
 "Never get so busy doing the work of the Kingdom that you forget who the KING is."

 "Sitting silently at the feet of Jesus is of more worth than all the clatter of Martha's dishes."  -Spurgeon

"There is no place like the feet of Jesus for resolving the problems that perplex our hearts."   

The song “Sitting at the feet of Jesus” (in Swahili) was the theme song at our Revival services at CBYC (Christian Believer’s Youth Conference) this past weekend in Nakuru. Do we take time to sit at Jesus feet and hear from Him or are we so caught up with earthly things that we don’t have time for the spiritual? Wayne used the example of Mary and Martha… Mary chose the good part and may we likewise take time to sit and learn from our Lord.


  We’re extremely thankful for the rain that we’ve been blessed with the last week or so. In fact, some places between Kisumu and Ahero almost look flooded. Some years it’s very dry by this time so we’re not taking this for granted but thanking God for every drop! It’s so nice to have pleasant temperatures instead of the heat we experienced earlier.

  Our Communion services are over for the year 2018. I think 15 Sundays out of the year were Communion services. It’s special to have a normal Sunday service once again! 3 weeks ago, we were at Dienya for Communion. It was one of Steve and Martha’s last services there before they left for America. Thankfully they plan to return to Kenya the beginning of January and stay until the beginning of March. We miss them and very much appreciate the work and energy they put into Kingdom work in Kisumu! Our girls attended church at Lela that day. Shonda is now taking part in Instruction class there with her uncle, Pastor JoeAllen, as her teacher. That’s pretty special! Joe does some classes with her at home as well so that Shonda can go to church with the rest of the family at least once a month or so as we make our rounds to the different churches.

  The next day was Family Day… no Pastor’s meeting or school, so our family decided to explore the town of Eldoret. We saw a tragic accident as we neared the town. By all appearances a dump truck wrecked while trying to avoid a small child on the road. We were very close to the body that was lying on the road. It was partially covered with a blanket with small flip flops close by. It appeared that the head was crushed with brains splattered around. So heartbreaking! There was a huge crowd of people there… must have been hundreds! I don’t know why we’re seeing so many terrible things on the road lately… just the day before we saw a young child get hit by a piki piki. Thankfully the tire didn’t go over him but it really flung him around. We have hopes that the child lived. I pray so often for angels to surround us when we’re on the highway. I hope we NEVER have to experience the horror of hitting someone on the road!! Your prayers are appreciated!! Our day in Eldoret was interesting. We did some shopping at a new mall and found an interesting fabric store.  Clarissa and Vanessa’s Orthodontist has an office in Eldoret, so we stopped there as well.

  The next day Steve and Martha and Andy and Dora (Rhoda’s parents) were here for supper. Shonda made the food. She had a Home Ec assignment in school that required her to cook for visitors, so it was a nice break for me and according to the comments from the visitors she did very well! She made soup and breadsticks, lettuce salad, and apple crisp. I love this stage of life when my girls can help so much in the kitchen! Recently they decided they wanted to make Christmas cookies for the whole compound. I thought they did a great job and it felt strange to take back seat in the kitchen. I mainly tried to keep the dishes cleaned up for them and ingredients available that they needed.

  Kore arrived on Thursday of that week and stayed until Monday afternoon. We enjoyed having him here again. Wayne has been working on more land issues the last several weeks… right now it’s trying to procure the titles for Nyakoko and Oroba church properties. He also had a Pastor’s meeting with Kasongo and Ombeyi Pastors. We are grateful that the churches seem to be more at rest again but we continue to desire your prayers for wisdom in knowing how to move forward and work redemptively.  Deacon Tobias Osur is alone at Kasongo and Pastor Jacob Obiero is sole pastor at Ombeyi.  I know they would appreciate your prayers as well.
  
  On Tuesday of the next week Glenda, Rosemary Ondeyo, Mary Ondiek, and I went to visit Mama Zilpa who has been excommunicated for some time. We had a good visit with her. She cried when she told us that she can’t even make chai for us. She seems to be gaining ground and wanting to return to the church but there are still many things that confuse us. Things still don’t make sense and her words don’t always line up with what others say. But we tried to encourage her and assure her of our love, and also help her see why we struggle to know whether we can believe her words.

  Last weekend Tony and Judith’s family was here from Friday through Tuesday. We wanted to spend some time together while our children were out of school due to CBYC being in session. Brad and Jamie did so much together and spent several nights in the tent in our lawn.  One night they were chased in by a rain storm.  Ayla loves to play with Tiffany, and little Kaiden is so charming, he keeps our girls laughing! J Unfortunately, Wayne couldn’t be with us for the afternoon on Saturday. He needed to preach at the funeral service of Vincent Bonde from Lela. Vincent was a dear old brother that had been a member of CBF for many years.  He was about 90 years old and was nearly blind and deaf.  When we would go visit him in the past we left blessed by his love for the Lord and his hunger for the Word of God.  The night of the wake at the Bonde home turned into a time of fear and tragedy when a group of about 40 young men armed with flashlights and “punga’s”, from the Korowe and Lela areas came to the home about 1:00 am and began fighting with the local youth.  The police were called to break up the fight but several youths were seriously injured and one or two of them died later from injuries.  

  That evening Judith made some wonderful stromboli and salad, and Tony cranked frozen yogurt for dessert!! SO good! Tony invited Joseph and Becky to join us too that eve. and we enjoyed having them here! The next day we attended church at Chulaimbo where we had our last Communion service. Kore arrived again that eve. and stayed until Wednesday. The next day Clarissa and Shonda accompanied Tonys and Kore to Nyakoko where they had “Orphans Day”. Clarissa took pictures of the 80 -90 orphans that were there while Tony and Kore did profiles of each of them. They were served lunch there and it ended up being a long day. Judith was also there and helped out with some food preparation, etc. The next day Clarissa went with them again as they did the same thing with orphans at the Kasongo church. Clarissa enjoyed putting her photography skills to use!

  On Wed. of last week our family travelled to Nakuru where Wayne was asked to preach Revival messages on each of the remaining evenings of the Conference. We stayed in the teacher’s house again this year which we enjoyed so much! We love having a place to call our own where we don’t have to feel like a burden to others. Our school teachers were all attending the 11-day conference so there was no school the last two weeks.  We were invited to Tony’s for supper on Friday eve. and much enjoyed rice with butter masala chicken. One of our favorites!! Wayne and I spent part of the day Thurs. at CBYC where they asked us to help out with some student interviews. It’s a new thing the staff did this year and felt very positive about it. We asked questions such as “What is your relationship with God, and your parents? How often do you read your Bible and pray? How about your moral life, temptations, thought life? etc. On Friday our girls and I enjoyed a cookie baking day with Judith and Sue Ann at Johnny’s house. We ended up with lots of cookies and some chocolate covered treats. The men, Tony, Johnny, and Wayne were also there for lunch. A good day for all of us!  Wayne preached some soul-searching messages. The messages were titled, Where are You Sitting?, Where do You Live (Who are Your People)?, and Where are You Eating?  The main thrust had to do with “Which table are we eating of? The Lord’s table where there is only good or Satan’s table which offers both good and evil.” That’s what makes it so deceiving. Satan’s offerings are characterized by the “lust of the flesh, the lust of the eye and the pride of life.” 1 John 2:16.  God’s table offers things that build us and our fellow man spiritually, Phillipians 4:8. The closing program on Sat. morning was well attended. We were happy to see most of our fellow Kisumu missionaries there as well as some of the Nationals. Moses Kilinga from Free Area was the chorus director and did a good job!! They didn’t sing nearly as many songs as usual but what they did sing was excellent! We LOVED the congregational singing as well! It’s rare that we hear good 4-part harmony like that with so much volume!! The group of students they had this year was the best ever according to the Principal, Marlin Yoder.  Assistant Principal was David Odiwuor from Oroba. We enjoyed hearing summaries of each of the classes this year by the teachers, Tony Sande, Peter Ngunjiri, Samuel Njogu, Tim Senerwa, and Joyce Musikali (for the ladies).  Thomas Amata taught a Christian Finances class on the last two days of the conference, but was unable to attend the closing program.

  We welcome Elaine Schlabach to Kisumu. Delbert and Susan are her parents. She has come to fill in as social worker until Melodie Beiler can come in Feb. We need her here and praise God for providing for us!

  We enjoyed the service at Ugunja this morning. James, Christina, and Kaylita shared a yummy lunch of chicken, rice and beans with us afterward. We feel blessed to be part of the work here in Kenya. Thanks to all who show us your support in many ways!  Nyasaye Ogwedhu! (God bless you) Wayne and Clara



Roly poly FUN puppies in the Compound


Nyakoko orphans


Camel in Nakuru town


Mall in Eldoret

Lela Bible study at the home of Mama Penina's relatives


Goodbye Steve and Martha but see you soon! :)

Prayer meeting at Gerolds... a very small group that eve.

Visitors from Kisii enjoying the puppies... Jolyn Unruh

Funeral of Vincent Bonde






After church at Chulaimbo


Please Kore!!

Cookie day at Sue Ann Zook's house



CBYC students

Cooks preparing food







Tony Sande (left)


CBYC staff


Matatus preparing to transport Kisumu students

Steve and Anna Louise Eash with visitors... her brother Linnford and Amber Byler


Church at Ugunja  (This little guy stores his church toy above his ear.  A nail!)



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Saturday, November 24, 2018

A Thankful Heart...

"When it comes to life the critical thing is whether you take things for granted or take them with gratitude." G.K. Chesterton

"We would worry less if we praised more. Thanksgiving is the enemy of discontent or dissatisfaction. Harry Ironside

 "The thankful heart sees the best of every situation. It sees problems and weaknesses as opportunities, struggles as refining tools, and sinners as saints in progress. Francis Frangipane

  We have much to be thankful for here in Kisumu Kenya!! God is providing us with just about the perfect amount of rainfall. We appreciate the warm temperatures, even though it's a bit hard not to complain about the heat sometimes. We're blessed by the many faithful members in our churches, even though our hearts are heavy for the ones who are not. We're thankful for a wonderful compound family who loves us in spite of our shortcomings. We're thankful for health to be able to serve where God has called us. God is GOOD!!

  It's almost 3 weeks ago now since Paul Oda was commissioned as Pastor at Oroba church. His wife Risper seems like a very supportive wife and I think they will be a real blessing to the church. The church service started around 10 am that morning and dismissed around 2:30! There were quite a lot of Paul's relatives there who all took their time in introducing themselves and giving a little speech besides! And one of the national Pastors who gave testimony afterwards ended up almost preaching a mini sermon! Such is life in Kenya! We're happy for Joseph and Becky that they have some help in leading the church at Oroba. 

  On Wed. of that week, we attended Bible study at Jacob and Joyce's house (Lela). It was so good to be with those dear folks again! Mama Zilpa was there. She has been attending church fairly regularly. Please continue to pray for her... she says she has peace but there are still things that need to be worked through before she can be reaccepted as a member.

  On Thurs. eve. Steve and Martha hosted the Prayer meeting. Their son Julian and Cathy and little Kylan were there as well. We enjoyed having them around for a few weeks. That eve. Martha served some outlandishly good cheese balls and crackers!  Such a treat for these mzungus who have a hard time adjusting to Kenya cheese! :) . We enjoyed hosting Steve's, Julians, Rhoda, and Joes here at our house the next evening.

 On Sunday we attended the Communion service at Kajulu. It was nice to have Steve and Martha there as well as Julians and Rhoda. For lunch we were invited to Pastor Joshua and Millicent's house. Jennifer and her girls did the cooking that day and we were served a very delicious Kenyan meal. We enjoyed hearing Jennifer and her girls sing afterwards. 

 The next day Tommy and Marji Wagler and Duane and Emily Sommers with their 2 children arrived in Kisumu!!  It was SO GOOD to be with Tommys again!!  They and Duanes were here working for the ROM program. The time seemed far too short. I told Marji that I think we could talk for hours and still wouldn't be finished! Duane and Emily are wonderful folks as well! They have had a lot of pain in their lives but their story is so amazing! God has truly made something beautiful out of their lives! We hope we meet them again someday! They live on the WA/OR border. Their home town is Walla Walla, WA. 

  Friday of that week was the annual Kisumu Pastor's meeting at Jennifer's Gardens. All the national Pastors and their wives were there. We felt really good about the day. Everyone seemed to enjoy it very much! While the Pastors had their meeting we ladies listened to Joshua's wife Millicent share about ways we can support and encourage our Pastor Husbands. Marji also shared a bit, as well as others. Then some of the ladies sang for a while. It was beautiful!  Lunch consisted of chicken, potatoes, rice, cabbage salad, and banana bread. There were some games played afterward such as corn hole, and can-jam. Duane and Emily traveled with Wayne and I. They had fun throwing candy out the windows to the delighted children along the way to the Gardens. 

  Sunday we attended church at Ahero. We were all excited about attending one of the closer churches where we don't have to bump and bounce so much to get there! :)   We were also delighted to come home for lunch... just us! It had been a good while since we did that, so it was a special treat! That eve. the compound family met at Josephs for a hot dog roast. At least that was the plan, but God sent us a heavy rain so we ended up sitting in the carport. But it was ok. The food was wonderful!!! Thanks to Tommy and Marji for bringing some very yummy hot dogs all the way from America!! There was a lot of talking and laughter that eve. Tommys and Duane's really livened things up around here! :)

  Wayne spent a good part of a day last week at the police station. Soon after 8 in the morning he went through a police check here in town.  They discovered he didn't have his piki (motorcycle) license with him so they checked his license using his ID card and said it's expired. They were initially going to arrest him, but he showed them a picture of it that showed it was still valid until 2020. So they took the piki to the police station and then he had a real runaround til he finally convinced them that yes his license IS valid! Around noon he finally got the business he set out to do finished and after running back and forth between various places and the police station he finally got his piki released and got back home about 4:30.

  Monday morning was a special time for the ladies! While the Pastors had their meeting, we ladies sat around tables that were nicely set up by Clarissa under the trees in our lawn and had a tea party. Marji shared some wonderful cheeseball and crackers with us and we also had danish braids and hot drinks. Emily shared part of her story with us. It was a real tear jerker! And then Marji spoke with us on the subject of "preparing ourselves to return to our homeland." She was honest with us that the adjustments can be very difficult, but if we prepare ourselves in a good way it can help so much! Marji shared a quote with us that I really like... "If we give thanks regardless of our feelings, He will give joy regardless of our circumstances."

  Wayne continues to work on land issues with the Nyakoko church whenever he can. Progress is slow but sure. Yesterday Wayne and I did a body transport for old mama Yunia Onunga, from Ahero. Things went fairly well. While we were at the mortuary another body arrived there and what a weeping and wailing!!! It was really something to see and hear! I'm glad we don't need to weep as those who have no hope... 

  The children are enjoying Thanksgiving vacation from school. One exciting thing for them is that Pepper, the dog that stays at Steve and Martha's house, had 5 puppies this week! The one was a runt and died the next day, but the others seem to be doing fine. We had a very nice time with the compound on Thanksgiving Day. Kaylita and our girls did most of the decorating. It was so pretty with candles in jars hanging from the roof of the tent and the tables with fruit in baskets and pretty loaves of bread on cutting boards. Steve and Martha shared some wonderful good ham with us. I think Julians brought it with them when they came. We also had broccoli/cauliflower salad, and corn chip salad. Rhoda's parents, Andy and Dora are here to visit right now. Andy is a brother to Steve's wife, Martha. They have been a blessing as well, and shared some of the ingredients that were needed for these yummy salads. For dessert Christina made a raspberry yum yum. So cool and refreshing! There were table games in the afternoon and the school children and Pastors played a rousing game of kickball! We also had some good games of corn hole. A cousin of Gerold's, Steven Lee, was here to visit for a while, so the youth enjoyed hearing his stories that day. He has gone home now and Sylvia flew part of the way with him. She has completed her term of service with AMA. It will be an adjustment for all of us!

 We're excited about the progress that is being made with the commissioning at Ahero. John Omondi received the most votes by the congregation and Charles Ochieng also received a good amount. After receiving counsel from the National and Mission Pastors it was decided to put the commissioning on hold while we worked through a few questions that lingered with the issues that had resulted in brother John being removed from the ministry some years ago. It was our desire to try to make sure that the foundation is solid, so that the past cannot return to defeat Brother John or the Church. Though it was initially painful to bring up the past, we rejoice that all involved responded very well and we believe things have been brought to rest.  On Sunday Wayne laid everything out to the church and announced that if things continue to be clear we will plan to proceed, God willing, in the beginning of the new year. If there is strong support from the church we will even consider commissioning both of these brothers. The church seemed happy and unified that day which was so encouraging!  Your continued prayers are much appreciated! 

  Time continues to bring changes. People come and people go. May we all be faithful no matter where we find ourselves. Thanks for your support and prayers, Wayne and Clara


Pre commissioning counsel at Oroba. Paul and Risper Oda (center)

Joshua Ochieng preaching

Welcoming the new pastor

Bishop Joseph 

Wide Load!  Reed mats

Lela Bible Study at Jacob Andawa's


Jake and the Chulaimbo brothers fabricating Dienya's new church building

Communion at Kajulu.  Pastor Steve and Pastor Andrew Orwa our 89 year old pastor.

Mama Elisabeth Apamo and Martha Esh.

Lunch at Joshua's.  Julian and Cathy Esh (center)


Kylan Esh


Bible Study at Consolata's in Nyalenda, Kisumu

My new friend Officer Ben at Central Police Station Kisumu.  Notice the poster.
P.U.S.H.  Pray Until Something Happens!

Clarissa and a motto she made for Anna Louise Eash

Steve and African refrigeration!

Pastors Meeting at Jennifer's Gardens




Pastor Jacob Obiero and Tommy


Pastor Paul and Risper Oda, Oroba

Duane and Emily Sommers

Clara and Emily

Andy and Dora Wengerd, Steve and Martha Esh, James and Christine Barkman

Tommy and Margie Wagler

We interrupt pastors meeting to bring you PUPPIES!

Mama Bonde (left) the wife of Vincent a long time CBF member.  He passed away last Sunday.
The burial is planned for 8, December.

Tommy treated us to some wonderful Indian food!  Thank you!

Pastor Joe getting set up for Thanksgiving

Jaduong James, signing land documents with his thumbprint.

Decorating for Thanksgiving

Wonderful American food!






Body transport to the home of Mama Yunia


Mama Yunia's Funeral

Look at that huge grave!


Washing hands for lunch


Clarissa making a motto for Sue Ann Zook