Friday, October 27, 2017

In His Hands...

“The only way God can show us He's in control is to put us in situations we can't control.”

    “Worry fades away when we know for sure our future is secure in God's hands.”

The heart of the King is in our Father's Hand. I'm so glad I'm not in charge!!! This Political mess seems impossible but to God it's a small thing. He's in perfect control! Opake Jesu!! Our lives are in the Father's hands as well. I've wondered if angels have been hovering over the compound. We have been hearing so much violence. Even at night above the noise of the fan we can hear shooting. Late one night it sounded like a drunk man was walking the street behind our house chanting, “NO ELECTION” over and over. It's so unnerving to hear all the shooting, screaming, and sirens. Oh God have mercy on the innocent ones who are suffering!! News reports tell us that yesterday 20 people had gunshot wounds here in Kisumu... some serious. I think at least 3 people died. Police were raiding homes, shooting and wounding even women and children. Such hopelessness and despair! And people are hungry. There is nothing like “business as usual” right now. If people can't find work they may have nothing to put on the table in the evening. It's such a helpless feeling to be stuck in the Compound, unable to help the suffering. We are so grateful though that our dear church families are mostly all in the interior, away from the city, and they are okay. The worst thing is finding work and having enough to eat. There was an Election yesterday but Kisumu and 3 other counties have refused to vote. In fact some of the polling stations were burned and anyone who would have attempted to go to the polls would possibly have been killed. Raila and his coalition are boycotting the Election... and Uhuru keeps pushing his way, not seeming to care whether things are done lawfully or not. Now they are saying that Kisumu and the other counties are to vote tomorrow. Hmmm.... I'm quite certain if it didn't work yesterday it will most certainly not happen tomorrow either. But God knows...GOD KNOWS!! What a comfort to know we can trust our lives into His capable hands! The Pastor's are having a meeting right now, discussing our plans for the weekend. It very likely will not be safe to go out to our Churches on Sunday so I believe they are planning a service for here in the Compound.


    Last Tuesday the Wayne and Joseph went to Kericho for a Agape meeting. Thankfully
Demonstrations were called off that day. Joe and Glenda invited me to go with them to visit our dear friend Caroline again. She was suffering terribly with pain that day. I was shocked to see her in the condition she was!! She tried not to cry out with pain but couldn't keep from groaning. And I was absolutely horrified when I discovered that her legs had swollen up so badly from fluid that it ruptured! I noticed a hole in her leg with fluid running out. So pitiful! It was hard to keep our emotions under control... especially when it seemed that the family was doing nothing to help her with the pain! We felt we HAD to do something so we went to Ombeyi to a private clinic and were actually able to get a Dr. to sign a prescription for liquid morphine! Joe hurried to Russia Hospital yet that eve. to try and get the meds but no one was able to help him, so he went early the next morning and was able to get the precious meds! He was just in time because the Protesters were just setting up to block the roads and cause chaos out there! Later in the day Wayne and Joe were able to get the meds safely to Caroline and give her some blessed relief from her suffering!


   On Thursday Wayne and Tobias visited Paul Juma again in the hospital. He is also suffering from cancer. But at least he is able to stay on top of the pain and has means of getting help.


  On Friday eve. we enjoyed a Unit supper and prayer meeting at Josephs. Kore was with us as well. Everyone seemed to enjoy the evening. There was lots of laughter and wonderful grilled chicken, sweet potato fries, beans, potato salad, and jello. Then it was topped off with homemade ice cream and hot fudge cake!! So yummy! By the way... remember in the last blog I mentioned that for 3 Sunday's in a row a vehicle wouldn't start and Wayne needed to charge the battery. Well the truth came out that night.... some pranksters slyly turned the key in Joe's vehicle to drain the battery!! If you want more information talk to Stacy, Rhoda, and our unit leader!! :) Wayne says... “Be not deceived, chickens come home to roost!” :)


   On Saturday Wayne and I and Clarissa stopped at Caroline's house on our way to a burial. This time Caroline was on her death bed and barely responding. She responded a bit with moans when we talked to her and opened her eyes a bit but they didn't focus. It was heart wrenching!! And we couldn't hold back our tears. We sang for her the best we could and then said our goodbyes. I knew it would be the last time I would see her. But I was longing for her to be free from the horrible pain. On Tuesday when I was with her I asked her if she thinks God is wanting to take her home with him. She said, yes! Then I asked her if she is ready to go, and she said YES! On Monday Joes visited her and she was more responsive than she was before but seemed to be in so much pain. Glenda gave her some more morphine. Later that evening we got word that she passed away. Thank you God for taking her away from her difficult life, hard living conditions, and awful pain! Imagine the awesomeness of Heaven for someone like her!! It gives me the chills to think of it!
Backing up a bit... On Sat. after leaving Caroline's we went to the Burial of Tobias' Elizabeth's aunt. But she seemed more like her mother because she raised Elizabeth. I've never been to such a huge funeral! There were hundreds of people there! Immediately on arrival we were escorted down the "aisle” between 2 large rows of tents FULL of people. We stood beside the casket and prayed and then were ushered to seats. I think some people gave up their seats for us. After a while we heard a commotion and then saw a group of Gor Mahia football fans come dancing down the “aisle” beating on drums and carrying on. They danced around the coffin a while and then went back the way they came, taking their noise with them. Later there was more commotion when some famous politicians arrived. You can almost always pick those guys out...they walk with a swagger! Babu Awino from Nairobi was even there!! He is one of the most famous “opposition” members of parliament right now. He was even in jail recently for speaking against the President. That caused quite some excitement in the crowd! I wasn't sure if a political setting like that was a safe place to be but  we made out alright. :) Elizabeth personally made sure we were fed very well. She served us rice and I think it was sheep meat and broth. Earlier in the week Wayne transported some food for Tobias' to the burial site. The back of our Fortuner was loaded with flour, maize, oil and a LIVE ram!! :)


  The next day we had our fourth Communion service at Ahero. Clarissa stayed home since she wasn't feeling well... she seems to have another bout of Amoeba. Shonda stayed with her and nursed a sore arm. She had an accident at school last week and fell hard on her arm\shoulder. So thankful it's not broken!! While we were eating lunch that day Stacy stopped by on her way home from church and told us that she's “sicker than a dog.” She had chills and fever, and very achy, etc. I was immediately concerned because I knew she had her wisdom teeth removed about a week and a half before and the one had become infected. The dentist had tried to help her by putting something on a swab and sticking it in the hole where the tooth was but I don't think it did much good. I had warned Stacy that we need to take care of her because I knew that oral infections can go straight to the blood stream. Later in the afternoon Rhoda took Stacy to a lab somewhere at Acacia where they checked for malaria and did a complete blood count. It showed that her white cell count was 94% higher than it should've been!! They gave her some meds and sent her home. While we were resting that afternoon Stacy's mom voxed me and was wondering if I would go check on Stacy. She wasn't able to talk to her because Stacy was too sick. I went to her house and found her all curled up under a blanket and hurting from head to toe. She seemed to be burning up with fever. I was in dialogue with her mom several times and I checked Stacy again later and she seemed worse than ever! I started feeling like she really needs more than the meds she was taking. Stacy told me she has all the symptoms of sepsis...she even had the fast heart rate and breathing. I knew that if she had sepsis it can work very fast!! We almost lost my Dad to sepsis! Stacy's mom, Sharon, also knew of very bad sepsis stories so we decided she needs to get to the hospital on IV meds. I helped her get a few things together and we were on the way to Aga Khan! I felt so bad for Stacy that they didn't give her a bed to lie on while we waited, and waited some more! Wayne took care of registering her and before too long they did some more blood work and gave her meds for the fever. The long wait was due to waiting on lab results. Stacy was able to lie down on some chairs in the waiting room but I'm sure it wasn't very comfortable! We were finally told that yes, she does have infection... although they didn't seem to know what kind or where it was. But they gave her IV meds that eve. and then she was able to go home. The next 2 days she needed to go back for more IV and now she is taking pills for a while. Please pray for her complete healing! She's doing better but still not back to normal. I have to tell you about the surprise we had when we were at the hospital! We had been keeping in touch with Stacy's mom and the next thing we knew she said she's coming to Kenya!! In fact she was ON THE WAY!! Amazing!!! We found out later that from the time she decided for sure that she was coming until she walked out the door was... 45 minutes!!!! I can't get over it! I think she must've broken a record! :) She says she had lots of help! The Byler family was together and got her all packed up, bought her tickets, and helped with all the details! They were able to get a very good priced ticket... $900 for a last minute ticket is great! They checked prices again a half hour later and discovered that prices had jumped 800.00! That felt like a confirmation from God that Sharon should come! As you can imagine, this was a HUGE blessing and wonderful help to Stacy!! And I'm SO very happy that Sharon is here to take care of her daughter! She can do a much better job than I could!  

  On Tuesday Wayne, Joe, and Joseph went to visit Noah and Evelyn Atito.  They recently moved back to Oroba and wanted the pastors to come to help them work through some issues. Pray for them as they seek to follow God.  They had been members at Oroba years ago and then transferred to Lela.  Lela proved to be too far for them to attend regularly so they left for a year and attended another church.  They are coming back to CBF now but it's not without it's struggles.

Thank you for your prayers!! We're depending on them!    Clara for the Yoders



Lina and Mary visit at Caroline's

Tobias and Paul Juma

You're coming with us!

Funeral food!

It must be good!!

Grillin in the rain!

Brad and the neighbor boy

Maurice and Caroline in 2015
Caroline's last days


Politicians at the burial.  Babu Owino waving at the crowd.


Clara and Clarissa with Elizabeth Ajuma and her daughter Sara

Noah and Evelyn Atito

Evelyn and Isaac Joe

Here comes Stacy's mom!


Sunday, October 15, 2017

The Trying of Your Faith...


"Patience is not about how long you wait, it's about how well you behave while you're waiting."

  "Don't mistake God's patience for his absence. His timing is perfect and His presence is constant. He's always with you!"

  "The strength of patience hangs on our capacity to believe that God is up to something good for us in all our delays and detours." John Piper

  It takes an awful lot of patience to wait for this "election mess" to be finished.  I know this too shall pass... but when??  Yesterday was one of the worst we have ever heard as far as gunshots, sirens, and screaming!  There was chaos in town and the police had a hard time keeping things under control.  Reports were that they were trying to loot our favorite supermarket here in Nyalenda.  We haven't heard if they gained entrance or not.  I would be very sad if that place would be messed up!  We depend on it a lot since Nakumatt is not stocked.  There were lots of roads blocked with stones, and some had stacks of tires burning.  They were going strong from morning til night.  It was definitely not safe to be out!  And they are calling for demonstrations every day next week!!  GROAN!  But I guess we will try to make lemonade out of "lemons".  The protests are supposed to be peaceful but there is a constant tension between the police and protesters.  Thugs like to take advantage of the situation as well and use this time to do their wickedness, while having the blame fall on the "protestors". We even had a taste of what tear gas is like on Friday evening!  Joe's and Kore were here for supper when suddenly the breeze brought us something that made our eyes and noses burn! Thankfully it didn't last long. We were so thankful when Kore reached the compound safely late in the afternoon! He was in Ahero doing food parcels for orphans and then came here for the night. We were praying for him as he carefully made his way through roads that had lots of rocks on them. In Nyamasaria a drunk man staggered into the truck that was ahead of him and Kore had to swerve to avoid him. The man threatened to rock his vehicle. Kore couldn't come in Ring Road because of fires. But he found another way. Such foolishness!  If only people could see that they're hurting their own people and their own city.  Lives are being lost and even the police are reported to be "out of control" sometimes and are accused of beating people and stealing food because they are hungry.  

  A week ago Wednesday we had the Special offices seminar at Ahero church.  It was a VERY warm day and it was a test of endurance for some of us. There were 3 messages in a row.  The message bearers were Joshua Ochieng, Jake Gingerich, and Brian Mast.  We heard some very good teaching!  After a typical Kenyan meal provided by the Ahero ladies we gathered again for segregated workshops.  Becky Hostetler shared with the ladies on the subject of "CoLaborers in Ministry."  She did a great job! I really enjoy those special days of being with our national friends.  Every year I know more people and remember more names!  I'm not naturally good at remembering names but I'm trying hard! That evening Earl and Edna Peachey were here for supper as well as Joe's.  Then we headed over to Joe's house where they hosted a unit activity.  Earl preached another inspirational message for us.  We really enjoyed our time with them!  We are also enjoying a visit from Ruth Kuepfer.(Mark Kuepfer's dau.) She lived here with her family more than 10 years ago.  She has been spending a good bit of time visiting native friends and she's also been a real blessing here in the compound!  She has made herself available to the busy moms to help with whatever projects need to be done. People like her are so refreshing!!

  Last Sunday was the second of our 7 Communion services for this season.  We were at Chulaimbo with Jake and Jan.  We arrived late because their vehicle didn't start because the battery was dead.  Wayne helped them get it started.  It was a long service... We didn't leave until after 2:00.  But it was a blessing to be there.  From there we headed to Maseno to the home of Willis and Sarah where we were invited for lunch.  We won't forget their home right away!!  We drove over some very rough terrain up a mountain until the road ended and then we hiked for a little ways up over rocks to their mountain home.  They have a lovely view where they live up high in the rocks but it obviously took LOTS of work to put a house on a hillside like they did! They have a family of 7 children.  Very nice family!  It made me feel like we are just SO spoiled and have things so easy.  This family needs to carry all their water up that mountain!  Imagine!  I was breathing hard and puffing by the time I got there and when I got home my legs were shaking like a leaf.  It's beyond me how they can carry water and all those heavy things up those rocks!  And their school children need to leave home at 6am every morning.  They don't come home until somewhere between 5 and 7 in the eve. I asked them when they do their homework, and they said at night! Wow!  I'm sure they have become "tough" and strong in many ways! 

  There were demonstrations again on Monday while the Pastor's had their meeting.  But things were fairly peaceful that day. James, Christina, and Kaylitya Barkman left in the morning for America.  They plan to be gone 3 weeks.  Their daughter Karla is getting married to Wendell Miller. We miss them! Sylvia is taking Kaylita's place in the classroom. Some of us ladies were together for a while sewing on Glenda's carport in the afternoon.  We enjoyed learning to know Ruth Kuepfer better and hearing some stories of how things were when they lived here. We got chased home by a very welcome rainstorm late in the afternoon.  Things were getting dry and the dust was flying so we've been extremely grateful for all the rain we've had this past week!  It cools things off so beautifully! 

  On Thurs. Wayne and I were in the Ahero area doing some visiting.  We stopped at Tobias and Elizabeth's house first. We feel so comfortable and at home there.  Then Tobias accompanied us to old Mama Flora's house to see if she is ready for Communion. We got to meet her granddaughter Grace who is going through a very hard time. She just left her drunken "husband" who she lived with for 5 years. When she started living with him he seemed to be a good man and was involved in the church, but in the last years he has turned away from God leaving her with a lot of pain.  We tried to encourage her and when we left her face was transformed from a very sullen expression to nice smiles.  Pake Yesu!  Mama Flora is the lady who has told some very strange stories in the past.  She tells of her niece who gave birth to something more like a snake than a baby! So AWFUL!!  It was obviously something to do with witchcraft. There is SO much of that kind of thing going on out there!  Crazy stuff is in the news all the time.  Recently a football team was complaining that they couldn't score because of someone using witchcraft against them.  Oh how people need God!!  Please pray that we can be a light in the darkness of Kenya!  

  Yesterday Wayne and I attended the funeral of Bro. Walter from Rabuor. JoeAllen was there as well and Kore stopped in a bit too since Walter used to work with Kore on the Agape program.  It was a fairly small group.  Wayne preached a good message on "A good name." I enjoyed hearing the Rabuor choir sing.  They sure have lots of volume!  

  This morning was our third Communion service at Lela.  Would you believe!  Before we left this morning Joe came over and said that their car wouldn't start. The battery was dead!  This is the third Sunday in a row that this happened to the Pastor whose church we attended that day!  He had been sure that it wouldn't happen to them! Wayne was needed every time to start the vehicle!  We got a good laugh out of that one and we wonder who is next!! :) We had a good service today and it was great to be back at Lela!  

  Please pray for us this week as we face all the unknowns and as we wait out this election process.  We need patience, courage, and endurance!  And we need good attitudes as well!  It's not easy for the Kenyan folks either because many of them can't find work with all the unrest... and then they can't put food on the table.  It's tough right now but God is with us!!  Pake Yesu!  Thanks to family and friends who have been an encouragement!  Nyasaye Ogwhedi! (God bless!) Clara for the Yoders

Jediah Gingerich


At Kiboko Bay with Earl and Edna Peachey




Fisherman cleaning his catch

Ahero cooks at Special offices seminar



Ahero Pastor Tobias and Elizabeth Ajuma

Pastors Thomas and Joshua

Pastor Jake with Brian



Rabuor Pastor Thomas and Susan and Deacon William and Rosemary

Becky teaching the ladies at Special offices seminar


John Omondi and Washington Otieno

Protests

Tear gas canister in his pocket. Some people get smart and catch the canisters that the police throw.  Then they have their own ammunition. 

Clarissa painting a sign for aunt Glenda's birthday


Enjoying ice cream cones with Brian and Mary Jane's family


Washing feet at Chulaimbo

View from Willis' mountain home


The food tasted great after hiking!



Willis, Sarah and family

Bradlyn made this at school. Not sure why he thought it looked like Trump! :)

Many people harvesting rice in the background

More protests

Margaret (in white) is Walter's widow



Service at Lela this morning