Saturday, November 3, 2018

Encourage the neighbors...

"I would go to the deeps a hundred times to cheer a downcast spirit. It is good for me to have been afflicted, that I might know how to speak a word in season to one that is weary." Charles Spurgeon

 "Correction does much, but encouragement does more."

"The best way to help those who are behind you is to heed those before you." Jack Hyles

  I've been thinking about the power of encouragement... especially to those of the "household of faith." Sometimes our focus tends to be "out there" in our Kenyan churches and we forget that there may be people right here in our compound, and in our own homes, who need an encouraging word or listening ear. My sisters here have been a wonderful blessing to me, in ways that they probably don't even know. "A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold, in pictures of silver."

  It's been close to 3 weeks since we've blogged, so I won't attempt to tell you all that has happened, but just pick out some highlights.
 Our clothing sales are finished for the year  2018!!  Opake Yesu!  The last sale day was a big one!  We went to Kasongo in the morning and to Ombeyi in the afternoon. Unfortunately there were no vans available for us to use that day, so we had to majorly cram everything into our car. Leave it to Wayne to find a way... The Kasongo sale went well. There was an older widow there that day who wasn't able to pay for a 100 shilling dress. ($1) She just sat off to the side and continued working on some hand stitching that she had. My heart went out to her so I mentioned it to Wayne and he talked to Pastor Tobias about it and in a very short time someone brought money for her to get a dress. I wish you could've seen her!  She folded her hands and looked up to Heaven... she was SOOO grateful for a new dress! I've rarely seen someone so very thankful for a gift. I love to see those who are able to help the poorest among them, take initiative to do it themselves without always looking to the mzungu (white man) to do everything for them. I should also mention that the income that comes from any used clothing we have goes directly back to their church fund. It's a great plan and these sales are definitely a real blessing to the churches. The Ombeyi sale wasn't quite as well attended, and some walked in quite late. Our hearts are heavy for the church there. Former Bishop Eric is still attending there but we are very troubled by his life, and it looks like more steps will needed to be taken in the near future.

  We ladies enjoyed a sister's meeting at Martha's house one evening. Becky Hostetler agreed to share her life story, and we all enjoyed that very much! It's amazing how we can live and work so closely together here in Kenya but sometimes we know very little about our backgrounds. I love this tradition of sharing our stories! Martha had the food table all nicely decked out with a number of her wonderful dishes and hot drinks.

  We've been keeping Steve Esh busy speaking a number of times recently. He talked to the youth one Friday eve. and gave their story about "reentry" back to their homeland. It sounded very interesting and we would've enjoying hearing it too. And then a few days later we hosted a Sunday eve. activity here at our dala. We set up chairs and the food table in our lawn and Clarissa had things decorated nicely with candles in jars hanging from the tree, etc. We had a special table for Stacy's farewell cake that Becky so nicely decorated. It was a beautiful evening to begin with and we enjoyed hearing Steve share "Lessons learned on the mission field" (from earlier years when they lived here). But soon the sky started getting dark and thunder rumbled.  Oh dear!  Some people started sharing words of encouragement and blessing for Stacy before she leaves, and before they finished everyone had to scramble to move everything under the carport and porches. It all turned out ok but we had quite a rainstorm!! Thankfully the power stayed on the whole time!  It's been quite erratic lately. 

The next day our family, Sylvia, Rhoda, and Kaylita took Stacy to the airport here in Kisumu where we said our sad goodbyes. Does a person ever get used to those?  I don't think I do!  I hate them!  But God gives grace and life goes on. I told my girls though that we REALLY need to stay in touch with Stacy or she might just fade out of our lives like the others did who left before her. :(:( I trust that won't happen right away though!  We've been in contact with her off and on. 

  I should have mentioned that on the day of the farewell here at our house, we were at Kasongo for the morning Communion service. Afterwards we were invited to Pastor Tobias and Millicent's house. We were relieved to reach their dala safely. Our vehicle doesn't have 4 wheel drive and we went through some pretty bad mud holes to get there!

  Wayne has been doing some visiting and preaching at funerals as usual the last few weeks.The deceased was Susan Amolo from Dienya (former Nyangondo member). Wayne visited George Owino and Johannes Opiyo one day (some of you formers remember them). Praise the Lord, they desire to be restored to the church and have been showing signs of repentance. He also spent a day with Pastor Tobias this week visiting some sick folks... one was old Mama Junia from Ahero who appears to be dying. They also visited Peter Ooko who has been in the Boya hospital for a while. He has a strange problem with his leg and Wayne isn't convinced that he's getting the help he needs. They also visited Silpa (John Omondi's mother). John was there as well and Wayne had a good talk with him about some of the issues they've been working through at Ahero. Continue praying about the commissioning that we're still hoping to accomplish there.  We don't know when that will be but we praise the Lord for the positive signs we are seeing.

  Wayne spent 2 days working on the land title issue for Nyakoko church. Land issues here always have surprises and this is no exception.  Working towards title deeds is a good way to get an education on the legal and sometimes illegal shenanigans that go on here.  Looks like it will be another interesting process.  Wayne rather enjoys the process.  It is an opportunity to make new friends and contacts in the community as well in government offices.  

  On Tues. eve. of this week the school children had an honor roll party down at the lake. While they were gone Clarissa and Sylvia went to town together since they were the only youth girls left and also checked out the new Milimani Beach resort down close to the lake. Our family checked it out one day recently as well, and it's very interesting!  The buildings are all covered with rocks on the outside and the restaurant is out over the lake. It's nice but still not finished, although the restaurant is open for business. I think it will be beautiful when finished! So with all our children gone that eve. Wayne and I enjoyed a good date at the food court at Tuffoam!

  On Wed. Wayne and I left early for Bible study because it was going to be about 2 hours before we finally reached our destination. First of all we bounced and bumped our way to Kajulu church, picking up Tom and Pamela on the way. Later we picked up Andrew and Christine, Pastor Joshua and others who wanted a ride to the home of Lynette, a lady who cared for 2 orphans that lived in Kajulu and attended church there. Lynette lives in the Seme area, off of the same road that goes to Bondo. It was a LONG drive but we had a very nice Bible study there. Wayne shared a topic and then we were served ugali, beef, sukuma, green grams, and chapatis!  It was very good! On the way home Wayne dropped me off at the stage outside of the Kisumu airport and Clarissa and Shonda came to pick me up. Otherwise I'd have had to bounce and jostle all the way back to Kajulu church again. I was so grateful for the chance to be home early since Joes and Rhoda and Kaylita were coming for supper in the eve. I can still hardly believe that our oldest daughter is doing so well with driving in Kenya! I'm feeling quite comfortable with letting her drive now. 

  Last Monday was Shonda's 15th birthday!  So that means we have 2 daughters with the youth group!  How can these things be??  Clarissa and I took a snack to school in the afternoon to celebrate and later in the evening we had a nice table set up with stromboli and pasta salad on the menu. Clarissa decorated a white pumpkin cake for Shonda. It tasted as nice as it looked! Shonda had the honor of making her own pumpkin spice cake. 

  Last week when it was our turn to host prayer meeting we decided to do something different since a number of families were not here and the group was small. So we planned a carry-in soup and breadstick supper complete with apple goodie and hot fudge dessert!  It was so good!  After that we had a short time of singing and prayer. 

  Today was our joint unit meeting with Nakuru!  James and Christina Barkman were hosts and things went smoothly. The agenda for the meeting was short so there was plenty of time for Steve Esh to share a devotional and Steve Eash to share their call to missions. Yes there were 2 Steve's here and it's important that we pronounce their last names right! :) . We were happy to meet Steve and Martha's visitors who just arrived here from Nairobi last eve. Steve's son, Julian and Cathy and son Kylan are here!  We're so happy for Steve's as they anticipated their arrival so much!

  We would appreciate prayers for Bishop Thomas Amata's wife Susan who was in the hospital this week. She was diagnosed with septic arthritis. She has had painful and swollen joints. I think she's doing some better now.

  For years now people have been warned that they are not to put buildings on the right-of-way next to the highway. About a year ago the government came through and painted big X's on the illegal signs and buildings. As so often happens here, many people just ignored it and went on with life as usual. But judgement day came a few weeks ago! Two large payloaders came down the highway... MILES of roadway... and left a trail of destruction as they pushed over fronts of buildings, boda boda shades, signs, etc. Wayne observed some of it happening and said that it looked like thousands of people were there watching. I can't wait til they get stuff cleaned up!  It looks awful!

  We continue to wait anxiously and pray earnestly for staff needs here in Kisumu. We're sad that Brian Mast's work permit has not come through and we need to give up hopes that they can return. It's been difficult but God gives grace and the fill-ins that have come to take their place have been a huge blessing to us! We were encouraged today at the meeting to hear that Brad McGrath's (single worker in Nakuru) work permit was approved recently in 2 1/2 months time! So maybe there's hope that things will be better in the future. We're trusting God to provide for the needs here! The harvest is great! The work is rewarding, but quite challenging! God bless all of you!  Wayne and Clara



Sister's meeting

Oops there!

Clothing sale at Kasongo

Part of the crowd watching the destruction caused by the payloaders in Rabuor



Funeral of Susan Amolo




Destruction of a church house


Communion at Kasongo


Walking to Tobias' and Millicent's house


Steve Esh sharing at our Sunday evening activity (farewell)

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Goodbye Stacy

James Barkman cutting some branches out of the tree in their lawn

On the Eldoret-Kisumu road.  Many of Kenya's world champion runners come from here.

The new Milimani Beach resort

Restaurant



So many accidents!

Shonda's birthday party at school

White pumpkin cake

Another crash in Kachok roundabout

Kajulu Bible study at Lynette's house

Discussing Nyakoko land issues with the members of the clan that sold it to us in 2007

Silpa and Mama Mary

Unit Meeting at James and Christina's

  

Sunday, October 14, 2018

Faithful to the Master...

"The highest form of worship is the worship of unselfish Christian service.  The greatest form of praise, is the sound of consecrated feet seeking out the lost and helpless."   Billy Graham

"All Christians are but God's stewards.  Everything we have is on loan from the Lord, entrusted to us for awhile, to use in serving Him." John MacArthur

 We heard some very inspirational thoughts and encouragement today at the commissioning service at Chulaimbo. Wayne preached a message this morning titled, "Lift up his hands" out of the story of how Aaron and Hur helped Moses.  The text was then taken from 2Thess.5:12-26.  We should use our eyes, ears, hands, feet, mouth, and heart to lift up and encourage the leaders among us. In the afternoon,Jake also preached a very good message on faithfulness to our Master. He likened the new Deacon to a galley slave, under rower on an ancient Athenian ship who will faithfully obey the voice of His Master, Jesus. To help the message "stick" Jake built a beautiful replica of a ship that had 3 decks with many oars.  He told a story from long ago...As long as the people all worked together with the oars the ship moved well and made good progress. The ship he built is a work of art and he presented it to Willis Agala, the newly commissioned Deacon.  

  On Monday two weeks ago, Wayne and I headed to Nakuru after Pastor's meeting. Wayne was asked to speak at a Agape Administrator's retreat that was held at Wendo Retreat on Wed. morning. We decided to leave a few days early and enjoy some special "alone time" for a belated Anniversary getaway (our 22nd!) We found a nice house on AirBnB in the Nakuru area in a bush camp called Pundas Milias.  The camp where we stayed is bordered by a conservancy and not far from Nakuru park. We were able to have the whole house to ourselves. The price was very reasonable so that was an added bonus. The setting was so nice and quiet that I actually felt uncomfortable with it. It was almost spooky! We're used to city noises and commotion and at this house we could hear the wind whipping around the house and the insects making their weird noises. On Tuesday we drove around the lake in Nakuru park. We saw quite a few animals but I was sad that we never saw the giraffes. We had a good sighting of a male lion and there were 3 rhinos very close to the road at one spot. It was a bit freaky to see them so close, so we kept driving. :)  The worst thing about the drive was that it was extremely dusty!! That eve. we enjoyed eating supper with the Zook family at Johnny and Sue Ann's house. Tonys were there as well as Wilmer and Esther Zook (their parents) from our home church. It was SO good to see them in Kenya!  I'm glad they finally got to see where their children are serving. 

  On Wed. morning we headed to Wendo Retreat where the CAM staff were congregated with the national administrators from Kisumu and Nakuru that work with the Agape program. I felt a bit out of place as I was the only lady, so I sat in the car and enjoyed a good book while Wayne shared his topic. After being served a good brunch we headed to Kisumu and were glad to get back home to our children. 

  On Thursday Wayne and Jake visited Willis and Sarah at their home to interview him before the commissioning service. Willis and Sarah with their 7 children live on a mountain of rocks. It's quite a climb to their house and the way they have planted shambas by terracing, etc. is very unique and interesting! 

  On Friday Wayne took Jacob Obiero from Ombeyi to the eye hospital in Sabatia again. Meanwhile the children and I were getting ready for a big weekend! The Zook family arrived in the afternoon to spend a few days in Kisumu. We really enjoyed their time here!  Thanks for coming!! Kore Beachy also spent the weekend here. Joes and Steve and Martha joined us at our house for supper that eve. Glenda and Martha helped with food. There was an early, surprise 40th birthday party for JoeAllen that eve. After we finished eating our hot food and before dessert, there was a sudden loud banging of pots and pans coming from out on the lane. Then it entered our gate and here was all the rest of our compound family singing "Happy Birthday!" :)  It was a grand success!! Joe hadn't suspected a thing!  From there we all moved out to the lane for some special cupcakes with homemade ice cream and toppings, as well as hot drinks.  It was so good and everyone seemed to enjoy it!  We watched the youth play volleyball for a while also. There was a nice sized group since Kaylita had some visitors here... Anita Hostetler and Rachel Yoder. Another friend, Rosalind Groff from Nakuru was also here. 

  On Saturday the Zooks spent some time out with Kore where he was doing orphan food distribution at Rabuor. They also visited the animal market and Jubilee Market. Wayne took the Zook boys and Brad swimming while the adults were occupied with their activities. That eve. we spent time at Kiboko Bay beside the lake. We were disappointed that the nice blue waters of the lake have turned GREEN!  The whole bay was full of the parasite, water hyacinth. I hate when that happens! It could be several months until it decides to move out and leave the waters blue again. 

  We were a bit scattered on Sunday morning. The Zook family and Kore, as well as our 3 girls, attended church at Rabuor. Joe's went to Lela. Wayne, Bradlyn, and I attended Ombeyi, where there was a communion service. We all met together after church at Joe and Glenda's house for a lunch of chicken, rice and beans. Dishon was with us for lunch as well. It was so good to see him again. He is working at a hospital in Kajiado presently. After lunch the Zooks headed back to Nakuru. 

  On Monday while Wayne was at Pastor's meeting I was busy with a huge laundry and taking care of some of the guest houses, as well as preparing the Pastor's hot drinks. The next day Wayne headed to Kericho for a CBF executive committee meeting. On the way to the meeting they drove through some heavy rain and were surprised to drive through an area where it had just hailed and there were actually small drifts of hail along the road! Wayne stayed at Kericho overnight and the next day there was a Kenya-wide Pastor's meeting at the same location. Wayne needed to chair both meetings since Bishop Freeman and his family went to America for the funeral of his brother. We were all very glad to see Wayne come home late that afternoon! We ladies had a special time at Becky Hostetler's house while all our men were gone. She served us some yummy donuts and hot drinks. Even the school children and teachers were invited to come enjoy the treat. It was great!

  On Thursday I got a text from my friend Emma saying that her baby has finally arrived!!  I was so relieved that her and the baby girl were ok!!  The next day Wayne and I went to the Ahero hospital with plans to take her and the baby home. We didn't have to wait long until Emma and her mother were ready to go. I carried the baby out to the car, and they put their backpacks, etc. into the car. But then they needed to take care of the discharge papers or something. We waited, and waited, and waited some more. Finally Emma came and told us that the baby has a fever, and they're needing medication. So we waited some more... Finally I went back to the room where Emma had stayed and found them there. The baby had a very high fever, I think it was over 105 deg.! She must've had some kind of infection. The hospital didn't want to release her until the next day, and I thought it was a good idea! Thankfully the baby was fine the next day, and they were released as far as I know. The baby was named after me, Clara, and that was very special!! :)  Emma and her mother were very thankful for the baby bundle and a few other things that we shared with them. Days like this are very fulfilling! While we waited at the hospital, Wayne passed out a lot of Torch of Truth magazines and got into conversation with quite a few people. It's a good place to minister!

On Friday eve. we invited Joe's here for supper again since Glenda was diagnosed with malaria. Thankfully she discovered it very early and didn't have to get very sick! 

 Yesterday Wayne went to Kasongo area and picked up a van load of folks who wanted to attend the funeral of Pitalis Aluoch's sister in the Bondo area, which was close to 2 hours away.  This lady had attended a Kasongo Bible 
study we were at a few months ago.  Though Kenya burials get long and boring sometimes it is a good way to show people the love of God and that we care. The people seemed to appreciate his willingness to take them very much! Some of our rural older members don't get out much and they really talked about some of the sights around Kisumu. In the eve. Joes and us were invited to Steve and Martha's house for an amazing supper. Martha is quite a cook... she makes almost everything from scratch, and it's just the best! We had hamburgers with the best homemade rolls, fixings, potato wedges, pumpkin and pecan pie and ice cream!!! 

  As mentioned our service at Chulaimbo was a blessing this morning. After a simple but good lunch of rice and beans, we assembled again for the commissioning service. James Barkmans, Steve Eshs', Joes, William and Rosemary, and Thomas and Susan, came after the service in their churches, and joined us for the special service. While Wayne was doing the commissioning, assisted by Bishop Thomas and Pastor Jake,  it started to pour down rain! It was so loud that the Pastor's had to shout their prayers and we still couldn't hear! Those sitting on the open side of the building had to move toward the center to avoid getting wet. I could feel some cold drops coming from the roof above me. Needless to say things were condensed and dismissal came earlier than it would've otherwise. But it was a great service and the rain helped us make more memories. :) We're very grateful for the rains we've been getting! I love days like this!!  

  Thank you for your prayers and support! Wayne and Clara





View from our house at Pundas Milias

Nakuru Park




Wendo Retreat

Walking up the mountain to Willis and Sarah's house

Tony and Wilmer Zook

Table set up on the lane for JoeAllen's birthay

Joe and Glenda

Martha Esh and Esther Zook

Notice the green lake!


Kaylita, Anita, Rosalind, and Rachel


A tired child sleeping on the dirt floor at Ombeyi church

Lunch time at Joe's house... Dishon talking to Wilmer Zook

Kenya Pastor's meeting


Mama Clara with baby Clara!

A young Muslim boy who had fun with Wayne at the Ahero hospital

Patients waiting their turn...

Funeral in Bondo



Loaded??

Sunday school class at Chulaimbo

Serving rice and beans


Stacy and Rosemary

Willis and Sarah

Pastor Jake and Joshua


The ship that Jake built... a work of art!!




Crowded together because of pounding rain

Jake Gingerich family with Willis and Sarah's family